Wednesday, April 4, 2012

A candid letter to my daughters. Pt. 2

Subject: Boys

Most boys at your age don’t want to do anything but get in between your legs.
And they will pluck any girl who lets them. Ugly, pretty, clean, dirty, whatever (trust me!!)
And they will tell each and every one that they are smart, and beautiful, and sexy until one of them falls for their game.
Tell those guys thanks, but you already know what you look like, and you already know you’re smart.  Too smart to fall for those weak ass lines.
It takes more than just kind words to get a taste of the treasure you hold between your legs.
You will see that some guys will move on to the next one.
Others will respect your mind, and they will try to get to know you, and treat you with respect because they know you’re not a tramp.
But, respect is just a minimum requirement.
You want a guy that is honest, smart, and loyal, has potential, and goals, and drive.
Make him wait and make him work!
But you can’t expect to get a guy with those things if you don’t possess the same qualities.

When you do decide to give away your “precious” remember:
#1) Sex changes everything.  Its more than just physical, its psychological too. Its hard to understand until you experience it yourself, but trust me, you don’t need to rush.
 #2) NEVER, EVER, EVER have sex without a condom. 
No matter how faithful you think he is, how nice he treats you, how clean he looks, it is too much of a risk!
Sex is literally a life or death situation. 
#3) Don’t you dare even think about getting pregnant unless and until you are married!  And that doesn’t mean that you get married after you find out you are pregnant.  Remember: First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes a baby in a baby carriage.